Never Apologize for Your Enthusiasm


Many many moons ago, I stumbled on this quote (where else? Pinterest, of course):

Harbour Affair | Never Apologize for Your Enthusiasm

For years I’ve struggled with a loud voice.

Squealing when I hear there’s a chance of a margarita or ice cream in near future.

Losing my mind when an it’s-so-fluffehhh! dog crosses my path.

Feeling so very, very proud when a long time fitness client does something they didn’t think possible when they walked through the door months ago.

Having my mind blown when I set-up the literally picture perfect shot with my families and couples, drenched in that juicy evening light with perfect expressions.

Hugging the fool out of someone I so truly love, even if I saw them the day before.

Shouting “I. am. SO. EXCITED!” on the phone with my brides when we’re running through their wedding day timeline.

Being “that girl” in a 6:00am workout who blurts I LOVE THIS SONG!

As much as I’ve been tormented with the sharp, gut-wrenching pain of rejection, depression, perfectionism, and need for appreciation and acceptance, I’ve also felt the other side of life just as strongly. And sometimes? I think I’ll never make sense to those who can’t understand how finding a perfectly formed, colorful shell on the beach could warrant the girlish, overflowing jubilation of Christmas morning.

And for a long time, I’ve practiced suppressing it. Hiding it. Playing it so ‘effing cool when deep down I want to run a lap around the building flailing with Muppet arms when I get the tiniest victory or piece of good, happy, enchanting news (amplify this by, like, 1000 if it’s for the people special in my life).

I’m not sure I actually classify myself as an “extrovert.” And I wouldn’t say I’m the most positive or happy-go-lucky person.

But sh*t if I don’t get really overjoyed when I find that extra cookie from lunch I forgot I stashed in my bag.

For a long time, I apologized for it.

So many “Sorry’s!” when my voice raises a few (okay, several) decibels and my smile stretches to the farthest corners of my (so round) face and I shout, “Are. you. SERIOUS?! C’mere and GIMME A HIIIGH FIVE!”

The hugs I tell myself were stupidly inappropriate.

The conversations with perfectly random strangers in check-out lines over an obvious shared love of a product I regret because I’m sure they think I don’t get out much.

It’s a bizarre feeling to experience everything so big, so intensely, and wanting so badly to keep it tightly wrapped in an unassuming box for fear of your overly animated reaction to the simplest things in life will brand you the eternal freak.

 Trust me. I’m often annoyed by myself. #calmdownCelia

But then again, in a world where things sometimes feel so vapid and bleak, can’t a healthy dose of enthusiasm be channeled into something bigger? Or, at least, make the seemingly small feel big? Why can’t we celebrate the little joys a little more?

The truth is, hiding my personality behind a muted, “grown-up” disposition left me often in places where I felt, well, out of place. I was bored and miserable and often more sedentary (or sober – context permitting) than I ever wanted to be. Disconnected from the people or the cause I felt the “mature” (pronounced “mAH-tur”) Celia needed to be a part of for sake of a resume or networking or public appearances. WORSE, I gave people who chose to be unhappy and negative the space to stay in their womp-womp sorts, feeling guilty when I tried to share any good or joyful news or thoughts… I, instead, stayed at their level, choosing topics of conversation that only allowed for spiteful, judgemental, or depressing discourse. It’s so true: Misery loves company.

But Joy does, too.

When I surrounded myself with people who made efforts – large and small – to keep their fires lit; who stayed curious and fascinated by the awesome and mundane; who opened their minds to the “other side”; who remained compassionate and happy in spite of experiencing tragedy or loss; who saw beauty and comfort in the ornate and the everyday; who, too, wanted to feel life at both ends of the spectrum and perfectly in the middle in their deepest sense… that’s when I took the shackles off my wildly enthusiastic heart (and mouth) and let “C” find what makes her tick. And, hopefully, what that’s supposed to do for the world.

For those of you who have given me the space to feel #allthefeelings, who don’t judge (too much) my overly animated personality, and who get excited with me – you’re on the path for sainthood, and I thank you.

To my friends who also experience feelings bigger than yourself, a squealy loud voice, and/or the need to see, feel, and experience it all… the world needs you.

Never apologize for your enthusiasm.

Hugs & High Fives,


JB Marie Photography

Photo by the ever talented Jennifer of JB Marie Photography

  1. Tracy J

    June 2nd, 2016 at 8:10 am

    I’m so glad you posted this. And I’m obsessed with that picture.

    I think 30 for me so far has been really coming to terms with who I am and finally, unapologetically embracing it. I have a sassy student who is always calling me a “nerd” when I get overly excited about linguistic things in class and I think she is trying to somehow diss me or hurt my feelings. I usually respond with a “THANK YOU!” and a high five but she seems a little confused. I’m sure she’ll figure it out someday… Anyway, I guess what I’m trying to say is that you should never apologize for being overly-enthusiastic. It is what drew me to you in the first place. And, don’t worry, I only judge you a little… 😉

  2. Kerri

    June 2nd, 2016 at 12:57 pm

    I only had the joy of being with you a handful of times but your smile was infectious. Continue to be joyous and live out loud.

  3. Jordan Thompson

    June 2nd, 2016 at 2:35 pm

    This is EXACTLY why I love you!! Your enthusiasm is my favrorite part about you Celia! You make rooms light up! I love the happiness and joy that flows out of you everytime Im around you! It’s contagious!! Your personality is perfect lady!

  4. Angela R.V.

    June 3rd, 2016 at 2:36 am

    Thank you Celia for posting this! I had a similar moment recently, and it started with my husband saying “just be yourself.” I love your candidness and your love of life! When we met 9 years ago, your beautiful personality is what struck me the most. You are someone who loves life and isn’t afraid to let the world know it. Thank you for sharing yourself with us all, and for encouraging us to live fully! Lots of love and virtual high fives being sent your way!

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